Unsubscribe FAQ’s

Unsubscribe FAQ's

01. I’m Getting Too Much Mail. How Do I Unsubscribe?

You will be getting mail automatically from three sources.

  1.  Newsletters
  2.  Forums
  3.  List Serve

You may also receive mail from members through the Dating Service or Chat Rooms.

Newsletters don't come out very often and only when there is something important happening.  I suggest that you don't unsubscribe from them if you are in the least bit interested in what's happening on the site.  

But if you do want to stop getting Newsletters, when you get one, go to the very bottom of the page and click on the link to "Unsubscribe Instantly".  You do not need to login.




Go to My Stuff -> My Forum Subscriptions.  

Un-tick the box to the left of each forum if you no longer want to receive mail from that forum.  

Click to Save your selections.


List Serve:

At the bottom of every email from the List Serve will be a link for Options or to Unsubscribe.  Click on that link,


Go to My Stuff -> Subscribe / Unsubscribe List Serve.  Click "Unsubscribe" and you will be unsubscribed immediately!

You may just wish to go Daily Digest where you get one email a day with a summary of all emails from that day.

02. How Do I Cancel My Membership

I hope you won’t want to cancel your membership.  We really need all of our members to help us grow this community.  If you haven’t met the person you seek, please don’t lose heart.  They might join next week, and you won’t know if you leave us.

If you can’t afford your membership with us we can convert it to a Complimentary Membership for as long as you wish to remain a member.

If you have another issue please write to [email linktext="me"][/email] and let’s talk about it.

But if you have decided that you really want to leave us there are two steps.

This is a two step process. Please complete both steps.

Step 1 - Stop Payments From Being Withdrawn From PayPal

Click the button below to go to the PayPal website.
(This page will remain in the background for you to come back to complete Step 2)

Cancelling your PayPal subscription stops all future scheduled payments of that subscription. A subscription can be cancelled up until the day of the next scheduled payment.

On the PayPal website:

  1. Click the Profile icon next to "Log Out" and select Profile and settings.
  2. Select My money.
  3. In the My preapproved payments section, click Update.
  4. Select the merchant whose agreement you want to cancel (MAPENTERPRISES) and click Cancel.

Click Cancel Profile to confirm your request.

Step 2 - Completely Remove Your Profile From Christian Gays

To delete your Christian Gays Membership go to My Stuff -> View My Profile in the Top Navigation Links.

Click Settings.



Click the link that says Delete Account.

Delete Account


This will bring you to a page where it will tell you that all information will be removed. It is completely irrecoverable.



Tick the box that you understand the consequences, and then the button that says "Delete Account".

That's all there is to it, but remember, we will miss you.

Please Note: If you cancel your PayPal subscription but not your Account, your membership level will be changed to Complimentary. (We really don't want to lose you.) If you REALLY don't want to hear from us again, then you must follow the instructions in Step 2, or write to [email linktext="me"]?subject=Please%20Remove%20My%20Membership%20Completely[/email] and I will do it for you.

God bless,