These are the things we do to be compliant with your Internet Service Providers (ISPs) 1. We sign all emails with a DKIM signature 2. We are DMARC compliant 3. rDNS is set up (not generic) 4. SPF records are set up 5. AOL Feedback Loop is set up 6. We are registered with Outlook…
The Christian Gays Website is still very much under construction and will forever be a work in progress. Our numbers are small, but this is a re-build of our old site that grew to over 10,000 members, so I hope you will subscribe, have patience while we grow, and help us build this new community….
The List Serve is a group of people who want to connect with each other by email. When you subscribe to Christian Gays you will automatically be a part of the List Serve. You will receive emails from other members, and you can choose to read, delete or reply. If you want to write to…
<<So did you start the christiangays website? Tell me that story>>> In 1998 my husband of 33 years died. Â Within six months of his death my lesbian lover of 24 years had fallen in love with my pastor (another woman). Â I was so alone and so lonely. Â My whole social life had revolved around my…
We ask that you fill in the Required Fields, and until you do, you will be directed to the Edit Profile page every time you login. After the fields are filled in you will be taken to the Social Group Forum page on login. You have the option of who will be able to see…
I have been dealing with frauds and scammers for 16 years on our old websites, (see list of Fraud Names that I have stopped over the years), and in that time I have learned much.  This new website has been set up with many precautions in place, based on my previous experience. First, we charge…
If you sincerely want to be a part of this community, we want you!  Nobody will be turned away for lack of funds.  You will need to register for the $2/mo plan and pay the initial $2. After that please send an email to [email]mary@ChristianGays.com[/email] with details, and I will be happy to give you a…
“Christian standards” mean that there is to be no blatant or titillating sexuality or immorality in your username, email address, profile, forum posts or chat conversations. Disregard of this rule will result in immediate removal of content and membership. Do not mis-read this to think that we don’t talk “sex” on this website. We talk…
Due to the fact that different people prefer different ways of connecting, we have tried to accommodate everyone’s preferences. Group Connections take place via List Serve, Chat Rooms and Forums. Individual Connections take place via the Dating Service part of the website. See the FAQ’s there for more details. List Serve My preferred method of…
Our membership consists of sincere people of all ages, all genders, all faiths, at all stages of life, and all stages of reconciliation of their faith and sexuality. Some are completely closeted, some are out to family members or a few friends, and some are totally “out”. Some of our members are here to learn…
You’ve come to the right place. You are the reason we exist. We want you to find friends and/or your soul mate and we have had many successes. See our Testimonials. We have a whole section of the website specifically devoted to finding Friends and more. Go to our Dating Service and Friend Finder Then…
A few years ago I decided to update Christian Gays. I knew that I wanted an animated header but wasn’t sure just what it would be. I was thinking of Christian and gay symbols (fish, cross, rainbow) when I had a vision of myself being a fish who was always going in the opposite (wrong)…
There are three reasons that this website costs money. Reason 1 On the old Christian Gays Connections website I gave a 7 Day Free Trial Period. Â Unfortunately that encouraged many “less than desirables” to register with us. Â Many were spammers. Â A lot were frauds. Â Some were sexually explicit with their profile content and pictures. Â All…